Sunday, January 22, 2012

First in, first out guy

This guy is the bravest of them all. Instead of ignoring me while I was in training, which is pretty common, he introduced himself and started talking to me. Of course I met so many people while I was training and had so many conversations that I barely remembered we talked. My second day on my own this guy not only talks to me a ton at work, but then walks out with me after and invites me to go out with people from work. I say I'll think about and make the huge mistake of giving him my phone number so he can give me the details. A little bit later when he informs me that the plans are now cancelled, he proceeds to convince me to go the Denny's with him and really wont take no for an answer. I didn't really have a good time, and basically made him pay because I was annoyed by his actions.

But do I learn from my mistakes? Apparently not. I rejected his requests to hang out several times in the course of a week until one day I felt it would be harmless to invite him over for a game night with some of my friends. The problem was after game night we spent hours talking and somehow he was able to change my mind about him. We proceeded to "hang out" more and get to know each other better.

Just when I thought things were actually going well though, they took a turn for worse. This guy had major mood swings and committment issues. He wanted to be in a relationship with me one day and the next just friends. He spent over an hour complaining to me about how all of the managers in the area hate him and everyone at work hates him, only to be fine the next day and everything was happy go lucky. oh and did I mention he would constantly bring up things about his ex girlfriend?

The worst part about this situation is everytime I would try to pull away and create distance he would bug me at work and not leave me alone until I was talking to him normally again. Oh boy would this drive me crazy. Finally, this situation fizzled out and I guess he got bored of constantly trying to make me talk to him at work because we basically co exsist now. The first in, first out guy is probably the best example of why its not a good idea to date co workers or bi polor psychos.

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